By Bertie Brouhard
The hands needing holding might be yours. You’ve finally realized that you’ve accumulated too much stuff. You for whatever reason have decided to downsize. Maybe because of your age, death of a partner, spouse or close relative, your financial situation – change of address, needing extra cash; whatever the reason. Or it could be as simple as a lifetime of collecting is now too overwhelming to manage, care for or enjoy? You’ve gifted family, friends and a charitable organization or two. You may have had a garage or yardsale. Listed items on Craigslist, Facebook’s Marketplace or taped “Free” signs to items in your front yard. But a mountain, large or small of “stuff” remains, and it needs to disappear.
In Cairo, Egypt. I was wowed by a long, shallow draft canoe filled with items a pharoah (those guys who built the pyramids) thought they could sail (with their cherished treasures) into the afterlife. They couldn’t and you can’t. After the memorial service, “funeral” if you will, the Pastor was asked, “How much did the ole boy (deceased) leave?”
The Pastor answered, “He left it all.” So will we.
But it’s human nature. Especially in our consumer driven culture to have our identity, our worth, our memories deeply embedded in things. Our dress (shoes, suits, handbags, jewelry, hats, coats, et al), our hobbies (goff clubs, bikes, books, cooking utensils, boats, fishing gear, ad nauseum), our household belonging (couches, chairs, lamps, tables, beds ad infinitum), our vocation needs (tools, instruments, gages, computers, phones ad mysterium) and those of your loved ones are cherished; your, their “Holy Grail of Stuff.”
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